Ramblings on love . . . when love gets tough ToddGuru

Ramblings on love . . . when love gets tough

Love. It’s just amazing how a single word have changed the world as we know it. People say that life is love. In order for you to live your life, you must learn how to love. Although love has many kinds, love for each of us mean different things. But in essence, it is safe to assume that love can make or break our day. What I mean is, for some people, love makes their world go round. They live life everyday satisfied with their love lives. But for others, love just makes their life miserable and hard. What we have to understand is that, just like all things in the world, that nothing can be perfect. Just like love, especially when love gets tough.

Love has made us cry at some points in our lives. For others, it even made them cry everyday of their lives. Each of us has a sad story to tell. And each of us has lessons that need to be learned. For as in every tear you shed, you become stronger. Your heart becomes stronger. Yes, it would be hard having living every day knowing you have lost your love. Yes, your life will never be the same again. The fact still remains: you have to move on. You have to love again, or else your world will not turn. Lost love is probably the most tragic ending for someone who loves with his/her heart. It happens to the best of us. It happens to the rest of us. That is why if you have your love at this moment, you should treasure it. Treasure each conversation, laughter, kiss, everything. You’re lucky to have those.



There are those who loved and had too much of it. Now you wonder, how can too much love be bad? Well, too much of anything is bad. Love is not excluded. Too much love is dangerous to your health. Most people just become crazy and insane when they inhale too much of the love aroma. Sometimes, there’s no turning back. Even though your brain tells you what’s right, you won’t do it. Your heart steers your ship now and just like the Titanic, you’re on your way to your very own iceberg. You’ll know when you see the iceberg, but you’re doing nothing to avoid it. Because that’s the way you want to go. That’s what will make you happy, even though reality has left you behind. Yes, love can lead you to your destruction. Love is tough, but you can be tougher. Still, at the end of the day, you won’t have any regrets at all. It’s because you did it for love. Even with the deepest wounds and pains, you continue to live on. Hoping that someday, someone will save you from your own self-destructive path. Someone who can show you the light. Someone who can actually heal you.



No matter how love has treated us, no matter how love has been tough on us, we still strive each day. You want to know why? Because of LOVE.

ToddGuru67 (c) 2009